Relationships Lyrics – HAIM

Relationships Lyrics Meaning

[Spoken Intro]
The speaker expresses uncertainty and confusion about her relationship. She’s spending time driving around, unsure if they’re still together or if they’ve broken up. The question “what are we going to do?” shows her sense of indecision about the future of the relationship.

[Verse 1]
The singer seems frustrated by the constant talk about relationships around her. It feels like everyone else is caught up in them, and she’s not sure what to make of it. She hints that someone is new to relationships, suggesting they might not yet understand the complexities and lies that come with them.

[Pre-Chorus]
Here, the singer notices someone’s expression, sensing they might be hiding the truth or lying. She feels like she’s in a relationship that’s making her question everything, including why things aren’t straightforward or honest. Despite having someone all to herself, she’s still full of doubt and confusion.

[Chorus]
The chorus expresses the frustration of how small issues in a relationship can escalate into something much bigger, leading to days of tension and confusion. The singer feels trapped in a cycle where nothing seems to change, and no one takes the blame. Despite these struggles, she acknowledges that she’s still in love but can’t handle the chaos relationships bring.

[Verse 2]
The singer feels guilty and conflicted. She’s not one to start arguments but feels her confidence has been shaken by the situation. The repeated mention of lies emphasizes her discomfort with dishonesty and how it affects her emotionally.

[Pre-Chorus]
In this pre-chorus, the singer demands honesty from her partner, wanting clarity. She hears a voice in her head constantly questioning why she’s in this relationship, suggesting she’s struggling to understand her feelings and whether it’s worth continuing.

[Chorus]
The second chorus repeats the frustrations from earlier, explaining how a simple mistake can lead to days of emotional turmoil. The singer feels the relationship is full of lies and blame, and although she might be in love, she can’t stand the emotional mess. The cycle of confusion continues, and she feels trapped.

[Bridge]
The bridge reflects the singer’s realization that this might be a common issue in relationships, possibly even inherited from her parents’ struggles. She wonders if this is just how relationships work, leading to the same problems over and over, and she seems to be questioning if it’s worth it.

[Chorus]
The final chorus dives deeper into the mixed feelings the singer has toward her relationship. She tries to explain how a small mistake escalates, but even when things get tough, she’s still in love. However, the relationship has become exhausting—there’s no pretending anymore, and it feels like they aren’t even friends anymore. Despite wanting to escape, she’s torn because she knows she loves them. She reflects that maybe these challenges are part of growing up and figuring out relationships, but she still feels the pull of love. In the end, she urges not to let the struggles bring you down because relationships can come full circle, but she’s still unsure about the emotional chaos.