“PER I LORO OCCHI” Lyrics by Ernia is a latest Italian song in the voice of Ernia. Its music too is composed by singer while brand new “PER I LORO OCCHI” song lyrics are also written by Ernia. This is a popular song among the people of United States of America. The song talks about Ernia reflecting on his relationship with his family, especially his parents. He grew up in a home where love was shown quietly, not with words like I’m proud of you, so he often had to interpret their care. He shares how this shaped him and his sister, and how he now tries to make them proud in his own way. It’s about understanding family, childhood lessons, and doing things for the people who raised you.
PER I LORO OCCHI Lyrics
[Strofa 1]
È anni che ci parlo con la psico’
Che parte del problema forse nasce dal principio
È strano solo a dirlo perché a casa non mi è mancato niente
Ma ora una parte di me lo sa dire cosa vorrebbe
Vorrei che I miei sapessero dirmi: “Siam fieri”
Lo so che ora lo sono, ma non sanno raccontarlo
Per anni io ho pensato loro fossero severi
L’amore per riceverlo ho dovuto interpretarlo
Gli altri li invidiavo, con madri pronte a dire sempre: “Bravo”
Io con la mia nemmeno mi toccavo
Lei mi diceva: “Hai fatto il tuo dovere”
È così che nasce chi vuol fare bene e poi chi deve
Forse mia sorella è stato il doppio, l’ha tenuto dentro un botto
Dopo l’ha mandato giù come sciroppo
Ma ci amiamo ancora, sai, non gliene faccio una colpa
È che son stati educati in questa maniera a loro volta
[Pre-Ritornello]
Accetterò
Che anche se non vuoi, ma ti rimane cucito
E ora lo so
Ma sentirlo dire io l’avrei preferito
[Ritornello]
Non è solo il DNA
Neanche il sangue nelle vene, nelle vene
Lo capisci con l’età
Quando metti I pezzi insieme per star bene
Certe cose dicono
Che le si impara da piccolo
Il senso di perderci le notti
È di farlo per I loro occhi
[Strofa 2]
Problemi silenziosi covati in pomeriggi oziosi
Farò qualcosa per cui rendervi orgogliosi
Saprò suscitare tutti I vostri sguardi affettuosi
Senza doverli leggere in silenzi religiosi
Io mio padre che piange non lo ricordo
Forse non c’ho fatto l’occhio
Ma neanche che l’ho visto rider troppo
Il lavoro, un parente disabile e noi due bimbi
Che a gestire le emozioni lo si impara dall’imprinting
E io ne ho dati di problemi, ma non mi hanno mai alzato le mani
Forse la voce, ma comunque in casi rari
E in passato ho provato pure a cambiare
Ma, per quanto smussi gli angoli, la forma ti rimane
Da quando camminavo altezza femore
Ho un bisogno più profondo, soltanto il soldo è un motivo debole
La casa delle favole ha una perdita alle tegole
Essere come gli altri anch’io un figlio meritevole
[Pre-Ritornello]
Accetterò
Che anche se non vuoi, ma ti rimane cucito
E ora lo so
Ma sentirlo dire io l’avrei preferito
[Ritornello]
Non è solo il DNA
Neanche il sangue nelle vene, nelle vene
Lo capisci con l’età
Quando metti I pezzi insieme per star bene
Certe cose dicono
Che le si impara da piccolo
Il senso di perderci le notti
È di farlo per I loro occhi
Non è solo il DNA
Neanche il sangue nelle vene, nelle vene
Lo capisci con l’età
E te lo fai andare bene per star bene
Certe cose dicono che le si impara da piccolo
Il senso di perderci le notti
È di farlo per I loro occhi
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PER I LORO OCCHI Lyrics Meaning
[Strofa 1]
Ernia is opening up about how he’s spent years talking to a therapist, trying to understand himself and where some of his struggles come from. Even though he never lacked anything material at home, he felt a deeper emotional gap. He wishes his parents could openly say they are proud of him, because while he knows they are proud, they can’t express it. Growing up, he thought his parents were strict, so he had to interpret love through actions rather than words. He felt envious of friends whose mothers praised them easily, while his own mom only acknowledged duty. This shaped him into someone who wants to do well but also feels obligated to meet expectations. He reflects on his sister, who internalized her feelings even more but later let them out, and despite the emotional struggles, there’s still love and no blame. Ernia understands now that his parents were raised the same way, so their behavior isn’t personal—it’s part of a cycle of upbringing.
[Pre-Ritornello]
He accepts that certain ways of being are ingrained, even if they don’t want them to be. He wishes he had heard their pride expressed aloud.
[Ritornello]
He realizes that family bonds are more than blood or DNA. Over time, as he pieces together his experiences, he understands the lessons learned as a child. He puts effort into his life and work not just for himself, but to make his parents proud, staying up late and working hard for their approval and love.
[Strofa 2]
Ernia talks about quiet struggles and wasted afternoons he spent thinking, wanting to make his parents proud. He wants to earn their affectionate attention without needing to interpret their silent reactions. He doesn’t remember seeing his father cry and rarely saw him laugh, and their life included hard work, caring for a disabled relative, and raising two children. Learning to manage emotions came from observation and childhood experiences. Ernia admits he caused problems but his parents never physically punished him, only rarely raised their voices. He tried to change himself before, but some traits remain no matter what. Since he was very young, he has felt a deeper need beyond money or material things. His family life, though cozy, had flaws, and he wants to feel deserving, like other children who are recognized for being good and capable.
[Pre-Ritornello]
He accepts that certain emotional patterns stick, even if unspoken. Still, he wishes he could hear their pride directly.
[Ritornello]
He reflects that being a family isn’t just about blood—it’s about experiences and understanding learned over time. As he grows older, he pieces together the lessons from childhood, realizing that the nights spent struggling or working hard are all connected to caring for his parents and trying to earn their approval. It’s a recognition that love and pride are shown in subtle ways, not just inherited traits. Over the years, he learns to make peace with the imperfections in family life while still valuing the effort and emotional connection he shares with them. Doing things for their eyes and approval becomes a guiding force, shaping his actions, decisions, and sense of self, showing how deep emotional bonds influence his life beyond just genetics.
FAQs
Q. Who has sung PER I LORO OCCHI song?
A. PER I LORO OCCHI song is sung by Ernia.
Q. Who wrote PER I LORO OCCHI lyrics?
A. PER I LORO OCCHI lyrics are penned by Ernia.
Q. Who has given the music of PER I LORO OCCHI song?
A. PER I LORO OCCHI music is composed and produced by Ernia.
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